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Its quite easy to think that we can handle everything about our lives on our own.

“Why trust a being we can’t see when we can pretty much do it on our own”, we often mutter to ourselves.

We all at some point in our lives want to do things on our own,probably to prove to others we are smart enough or to do something kickbutt that the world will appreciate and say ” Mhen,he/she is goood.”

I have been there too,struggling to be little MissPerfect,to get in everyone’s good books, to be applauded by everyone.

As I look back at those years of struggle, I cannot help but wonder how foolish I was.I had placed my worth in the hands of people. I let people define me and because of that, my energy shifted to wrong places.I must’ve thought myself a super brave girl huh๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚?silly me!

Things turned around for me when I stepped out of the falsehood of the enemy of my soul and stepped into the reality of who I was in Christ; the one who gave himself for me.The deeper I sank into that reality, the clearer my vision became. I saw myself stepping into my real worth; who Christ saw me as and what he says I am.The more I saw my worth I saw in Christ, the confidence I had in myself began to break,my opinionated self slowly fading away.

When you seek validation from people, you will try all you can to satisfy everyone around you and you will go all out to do it on your own to prove your worth…The question is do we have any worth outside Christ??

When Christ becomes your priority, your focus, your reason,your because, you will see yourself literally walking in “His” confidence.

The secret is know who you are in Christ.Discover that your worth is in Christ and Christ alone.

John 15:5(KJV) states:

I am the vine,ye are the branches:He that abideth in me,and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit:for without me ye can do nothing.

There’s an emphasis on “without me.”

Make Christ your motivation for living and you won’t have any reason to be self confident.

If Christ is enough is enough for you,you can’t help but stride along, with his confidence soaking your being.

Know Christ today and become a Christ confident believer.


You’re Not Alone.

When I was going through tough times in my life, I always taught that I was alone.That nobody could or will ever understanding my pain because nobody knows how I feel but I realized something new as I was growing older.Everybody has their own level of pain. It might not be same as yours but pain is pain..As you go through life’s journey, always remember one thing; you’re not alone…Someone out there is also going through pain and though the reason behind the pain might differ,the feeling of the pain is still same. Someone out there has it worse than you have.Most times,we’re broken, battered and damaged to an extent that there’s no hope for repair and at that point, you might think that “nobody knows what I’m going through” They don’t know how much I’ve suffered”.Wrong.Lies.Look at the picture here.If Nick without arms and legs can still live life to the fullest despite ridicule, insult and mockery,then ANYBODY can still live the life of a winner.

Just know one thing, no matter what you’re going through,no matter what society has done to damage you,YOU’RE NOT ALONE.

With Love,Estherโค

Appreciating our Beautiful Skins.


Hello beauty Queens/ kings! I  had  very strong urge to share this message with you and it centers on appreciating our beautiful skins as indicated in the topic.

First of all  I would say if you can’t  love yourself for who you are, how are you going to feel good enough to get what you want? The truth is that the only person that can decide if you are good enough, beautiful or worthy is you.Changing how we feel about ourselves can turn our lives around. People are not going to stop saying negative things about you but you can change the way you react to those negative, hurtful words.

One of the ways you can change your mindset from negative  to positive is SMILE! 

Smiling is a booster for happiness.Even when you don’t see the need to smile, force yourself for 30 seconds or a minute and your body will start releasit all those wonderful chemicals that makes you feel happy. Try it now and see the changes.

That where I end this message for now.I will write more next time.                         With So Much Love,                                        Esther C.Ogbaji.                                                        ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ!